27 December 2008

A Celebration or a Crazy-Action

Christmas Eve....another day of celebration...yet it turned out to be another Disastrous Night at the place I dwelled in. Why are people being surrounded by insanity and violence these days. Isn't it a day to enjoy and to celebrate. These minority of people always like to take this day as an opportunity to break the mood of this holy day. It is fine to enjoy yourself, but to the extend to vandalise the public properties or putting your wilderness on another human being...that is too much. I think the authority should ban this people from having a public party again. They should be locked up during every eve or actual day of a streetparty as a punishment. Having this people around is not bringing in the fun...but it brings in grunt.

Nowadays, as I grow older. I tend not to spend so much time battling myself through the crowd for those countdown celebration. Unless it is a control/secured kind of gathering where decent people are attending such functions. To me, this type of event is more suitable to teenagers. Having a in-house/in-club event would be more suitable for us...enjoying the food we like, drinking the liquid we prefer and playing the game we used to play. At least, we paid for the event and hoping that things will not turn out as ugly as the free streetparty in town. Nevertheless, I believe this is much better than meeting strangers on the street that is so strange that it might turn out to be a threat to us.
I came around a story of a friend who end up losing his wallet just by walking from one end of the crowd to the other. Isn't that sad? May be this incident has become so common that it happened almost on every countdown's event. Are you one of them? Share your story...

14 December 2008

AoW

Making the decision could be the worst thing to do. But each of us could not escape from taking this action. To be able to walk through this thing called LIFE...we just have to bear with it...

Recently, I heard a friend who has just submitted her resignation letter for a company that she has been working for more than a decade. It must be a very difficult decision to make. At this point of time, it is the mind that play an important role in staying firm with the decision. The situation is like your brain tells you one thing and your heart tells you the other. So which one should we follow? That is what I called "DILEMMA". We used to hit this whenever we want to act on what we THINK is right and not knowing what future will turn out to be.
In fact, we actually know what to do but we need confirmation of our decision. Hence, we used to end up seeking advice from our friends, family members or people we trusted. We considered them as our Angel of Wisdom(AoW).

I always believe that each of us are searching for one of this AoW. These people can really comfort us pretty well. The main thing is we TRUST these people. If you are the religious type, then your AoW might be your priest. Though his/her advice might not be the best, but we take it with thought. To cut it short, it is us that decide to take the advice or not. It is whether we want to open up our mind to absorb what is said. Hence, it is all up to US. Our mind must be strong to know what decision to make.

So have you found your AoW? These are people you wanted to talk with the most when your are in DILEMMA. Or just listening to their voice, it just clear your worries (may be not completely but more or less).....