This time there is another passionate reader who commented on my blog. Welcome Merz CLK for the contribution. Glad that I got feedback from all my write-up. Your say is interesting and it shall be my PICK of the MONTH. Ganbate!!!!! Now and then, I will be picking some comments and sharings from my fellow readers to drop it in this column of my blog. This is a tribute to them for taking the courage to let out what they feel and a token of appreciation for their contribution. So better get your typing skill ready and start to share with us your thoughts. Kindly EMAIL(if you do not know my email, pls ask) me or leave me your sharing/comments (provided at least 100 words and above) in this blog and I shall pick and publish it in my blog for others to read. Do provide a nickname too. Here is one of it, do enjoy..... ************************************************************************************
Merz CLK said...
Hi, I'm here because I wanna let you know that eventhough I seems to be busy all the time, yet I still able to catch up till your latest episod oh.. hehe..Your thoughts in every episods reminds me on lots of memories..Makes me feel like wanna setup my own blog di..:pWell, I've some add-in on your Part-10 series...Love also means passion. What is passion? It's the STRONG FEELINGS in our heart towards a person. But how long will this "STRONG FEELINGS" last? For example, you love to eat...(anything you've tasted), you love to go...(anyplace in this world) or you love...(anyone in your mind) AND YOU REALLY LOVED...SO MUCH!!! But...as I said "HOW LONG" or "TILL WHEN"?
If you:
- eat things that you love everyday or everyweek, will you still LOVE eating it after a period of time?
- go/visit to places that you love so often, will you still LOVE to go/visit that place after a period of time?and finally...Guess what would I say here?
- be with the one you LOVE everyday, will you still LOVE him/her? Of course, I'll still love him/her la! So, that's not what I wanna say ok. But...
- If the person you love repeatly doing things tat you dun like everyday, never try "DO A LITTLE CHANGE" at all...Imagine that...how to make someone to continue loving you for another 5 or 10 years...?
You might not knowing the true reason why you love a person. Maybe because you admire his/her beauty, his/her talent, his/her style and etc... which relates to Part-14 series..AdmirationSo, what shall we do in order to have a meaningful long lasting love relation (at least for 30 years or more)? I learned from my own marriage life...so it's one of the secret tips oo.. ;) Haa...this relates to Part-5 series,
Never thought of just a little change
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then it turns out to be extremely great beginning
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The secret tips is "A LITTLE CHANGE ON YOURSELF"...believe it or not?
As I said earlier on, u need to make a person love you for at least 30 years or more...So, for girls.."A LITTLE CHANGE":
- do a little of make-up when you're being invited/ask to go out for dinner or shopping or movie (eventhough you don't like to make-up)
- dress-up yourself a bit by wearing a bit shorter or tighten skirt (eventhough you don't like to wear short skirt)
- change ur hairstyle (perm or straightened or cut)I'm not asking you to force yourself to CHANGE, but every girls like to be pretty. It's just that you'll feel LAZY to dress yourself after married or after being with him for so many years, right?And for guys.."A LITTLE CHANGE":- buy a small little present or a piece of flower that she like or...???
- call her just to say "I LOVE YOU" or "I MISS YOU" (don't do this if you doesn't mean it)
- bring her out for a special or romantic dinner (don't give reason by saying "NO MONEY" cause some place are nice but not expensive)
- also.. dress-up yourself a bit (not always T-shirt with jeans eventhough it's a branded LEVI's that cost RM???++)
Warning to all guys out there "DON'T ALWAYS THINK THAT WE'RE ALREADY TOGETHER FOR SO MANY YEARS SO NO NEED TO...bla bla bla"
LOVE is 2-WAY communication, so please don't just wait or expect him/her to do something for you. You can either take the first step first or give him some hints or tell him what you want from him (don't be too demanding...A LITTLE IS ENOUGH)Well, by doing "A LITTLE CHANGE" both of you will have feelings like you're back to the SPRING aka "suzushi" period lo...sweet right?
Besides that, both have to learn to forgive each other (don't say you forgive di, then bring back the grandmother story again and again in every arguments).Some people said try to avoid arguments, but I don't agree because if you avoid means things is not solve, either he/she is keeping it inside the heart.We are human, it's hard to avoid because everyone have their own mood everyday...so, can argue a bit but make sure u learn to forgive when he/she ask for forgiveness.Don't pretend not to ask for forgiveness if you know it's your fault just because you wan to WIN ok, cause by doing that you're actually making the argument worst.GOT my tips? Wow...never thought I can write so long..
Enough 100 words or not a?I think it's enough..cause it's not my blog kakaka... Just to share something and hope to give you inspiration.
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In conclusion, I would like to highlight that
Guys >> pls do something even when you are MARRIED!! Be loving, and THINK for your life-long partnet at HOME.
Gals >> pls do not demand too much. You are not forever 18 or 25!! Be compassionate and DO NOT think too much.
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